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Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect "Lenona" wrote in message news:1ee5b04a-cfeb-458e-81f0-b6491eecc964@a28g2000vbo.googlegroups.com... I should add that there's another situation, too. That is, I'm sure even Miss Manners would give special exemptions for truly horrific cooking. Example? From "Coal Miner's Daughter": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZaZuOdMMZ4 S P O I L E R I can't play this video right now, so I don't know if it has the complete scene. However, the point of it was that 13-year-old Loretta made a pie which Doo, her soon-to-be husband tastes - and he reacts quite negatively but more or less politely. (Loretta was supposed to use a cup of sugar, but got careless and used salt instead. As Doo good-naturedly says: "Makes sense. They're both white.") --- I have never really understood how people could do that. Aren't those things in marked containers? When I used a lot of sugar I kept it in a canisters. Now I just keep it in the bag or box. Salt is in the shaker. I use Real Salt these days. In the old days I used Morton or a store brand and I used the big blue (or whatever color) round cardboard container that it was in.
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect "Ranee at Arabian Knits" wrote in message news:[email protected]... You are raising your children beautifully You can be proud! -- -- https://www.shop.helpforheroes.org.uk/
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect In article , Dan Abel wrote: I agree with the first part of this, but not the second. I am not a short order cook and this is not a restaurant. We buy and cook nutritious food that tastes good. If one person doesn't like one part of it, that is kind of his problem. I won't make them eat a ton, but because children's tastes change, we do require them to take a thank you portion (three bites at least) and eat it politely. They do not need to have any more after that, and if they want seconds, they choose whatever they want seconds on, rather than the whole meal. Part of how we are teaching them to be polite is that you may say yes please or no thank you to things you are offered as a choice, you may not ask for something not offered. Unless you have a medical or religious reason not to eat something, you eat it when it is served, and make no comment. If someone gives you a choice, you may politely decline. That doesn't seem so draconian to me. Really, unless it is a big meal, most adults I know take a little of everything there is at the table. Unless you're talking a party with tons of food or a holiday, anyway. I still make myself eat things I know I don't care for when they come up, to see if I've changed my mind. I discovered I liked some bleu cheeses that way and found that rehydrated mushrooms are tolerable to me. Regards, Ranee @ Arabian Knits "She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands." Prov 31:13 http://arabianknits.blogspot.com/
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect On Thu, 03 Mar 2011 11:40:20 -0800, Ranee at Arabian Knits wrote: Thank you. That is very reasonable. -- Today's mighty oak is just yesterday's nut that held its ground.
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect In article , "J. Clarke" wrote: I actually debate that. If I go to a dinner party and hate the food, I cannot just not eat it without offending the host. I take a small amount and eat it as best I can. If I visit a foreign country and am not used to their cuisine, it is the height of rudeness to flatly refuse it or take a bite and push the plate away as I don't care for it. If a person from a foreign country visits and makes a meal for me, it is rude to stop eating it because it disgusts you. We train our children to take small amounts of new things, try everything, eat at least three good bites of it and to be gracious. Even if the food isn't good, the fact that someone made it for you shows that they care for you and you ought to be thankful for that. The example I've used with our children is that when they bring us handfuls of weeds or scribble drawings, we didn't toss them or make remarks about how they weren't really as nice as they ought to be. It was a gift from their hearts and would be hurtful and rude to treat it otherwise. We do not wish to hurt people's feelings when they have gone to the effort (and expense) of making a meal for us. We want to be open to new things, because we like travel and visiting with people from other nations. We are Christians and believe in missions (please don't go all flammable on me over this), and a missionary won't be very effective if he can't even handle eating the foods of the new nation or tribe. Eating at someone's home, even one's own, is not the same thing as cooking for oneself or eating at a restaurant. You are not taking care of only your own needs or preferences nor are you paying someone to please your palate. Also, I don't know of many (any?) parents who exclusively cook things that their children hate. Even when I make things that someone or a few people don't like, I make sure to have other things on the plate they do. I am one of the few people who likes sushi in our house, so we rarely eat it. OTOH, neither Rich nor I like mushrooms all that well, so, though we don't discourage our children from eating it, we don't really have it at home a lot. We used to give all our foods we didn't like _to_ the children when they were very little and ate off our plates at restaurants. We'd give them bites of the other parts, too, but Rich would give them his zucchini and I'd give them my mushrooms and they were fine with it. It was just a different food to them. Regards, Ranee @ Arabian Knits "She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands." Prov 31:13 http://arabianknits.blogspot.com/
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect In article , Orlando Enrique Fiol wrote: It doesn't take being poor for that to be the case. We are pretty solidly middle class, but our family is made up of nine people. It doesn't take too long to realize that coming up with alternatives for everyone isn't going to fly. And your last line is spot on, IMO. Regards, Ranee @ Arabian Knits "She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands." Prov 31:13 http://arabianknits.blogspot.com/
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect "[email protected]" wrote: For me, food was a strongly visual experience. I could be counted on to not like anything. I grew up on bread and butter and plain hamburgers (NO cheese or anything!) and milk. Mac'n'cheese was disgusting! Mac in butter sauce was great! I didn't eat much else until college. Chocolate milk in my breakfast bowl of Cheerios. Once I was invited to dinner at some upstairs neighbors. They served spaghetti in Ragu pasta sauce. I forced myself to eat it, not wanting to seem ungracious. Then it hit me, "I remember this flavor and remember liking it!" So began one of the greatest food comebacks of all time. Andy
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect On Feb 9, 1:28?am, "Julie Bove" wrote: I was always a picky eater too, right from the beginning. Most of it was texture, so some things my mom was able to adjust such as using granulated onion vs chunks of onion. I also went to bed early on a regular basis. I didn't starve though. Even if I refused to eat one item, there was still something else on the plate that I would eat, so I was still getting some good nutrition. I was just opting out of dessert, tv, etc. Once she had a pretty good idea of what I liked and didn't like, it wasn't too hard to make a few adjustments without catering. For example, two veggies could be served. One that I liked and one that I didn't like. Those who liked both could eat both. Those who didn't could eat the one they liked. I am still quite picky (still mostly texture and anything spicy), but I can eat at other people's houses and still do pretty well, often with nobody knowing there is a problem. Last summer, I stayed with a cousin for a few days. His wife served a potpie with that had peas and green beans along with veggies that I like. I ate it all. The peas actually tasted good, the first time I have liked peas other than in split pea soup. I think they were cooked longer so the texture was better. The green beans were icky for me, but I got them down without anybody knowing I didn't like them. My sister was there and commented later that she was impressed at how well I got it down. Years ago, I went to Mexico 3 times to visit my exchange sister. Three weeks at a time, and I lost 15 lbs each trip. The one breakfast involved a spicy sauce, but her mother would serve my plate first and then add the sauce, so I didn't get anything really spicy. Most things were great. A few were horrible. One dish had steamed rice, onions, and peas. That was it. I can eat steamed rice with some sauce, but not plain sticky rice. And onions and peas and really icky for me. So, I drank a lot of pop between bites, ate a bread roll between bites, and I managed to get it down. There were a few times when i excused myself to use the bathroom because I wasn't sure if the food would stay down. Even as a picky eater, I do agree that kids should be given a plate with variety and the either eat it or they don't. Make sure that something on it is okay so that they don't starve. But no replacements, and no dessert or rewards if they don't eat at least some of everything.
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect On Fri, 11 Feb 2011 15:11:39 -0600, Melba's Jammin' wrote: The photos are gorgeous and the recipe is much appreciated. Thanks, Barb. Boron
Column on getting kids to eat - not what you might expect In article , Boron Elgar wrote: I just mailed the recipe to you along with a couple pics of it. -- Barb, Mother Superior, HOSSSPoJ Holy Order of the Sacred Sisters of St. Pectina of Jella "Always in a jam, never in a stew; sometimes in a pickle." Pepparkakor particulars posted 11-29-2010; http://web.me.com/barbschaller
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