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Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? You may love him, but if he has a history of abuse...your in for a good time with him.
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it?
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? You said it yourself: "I do sense womanizing/misogynistic traits within him."You're a woman. A misogynist hates women and wants to hurt them. There's your answer.It is never appropriate to hit women, even in high school, even if provoked. He could have walked away from those girls. Instead, he "beat them bloody."Suppose you get into a "verbal fight" too. What do you suppose will happen? You can't spend the rest of your life trying not to make someone angry.I wouldn't take the risk. Suppose you do take it to the next level, but find out that he hasn't changed. Then you'll have a stalker on your hands, angry that you broke up with him, threatening you for the rest of your life.And if he's highly intelligent, then he'll be that much smarter about it.
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? You know better.When someone includes the phrase "But I love him." I hear Jerry Springer in the background saying: "Why do you keep taking him back?"So marry him but call Jerry in advance to get a spot on his show. Because you will need it. Abusers abuse, that's what they do and that's how they know how to attempt to control any situation.So GOOD LUCK WITH THAT and wear a red dress on Jerry so that I will know is is you.
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? Don't do it!!!!!!!! You say you sense mysogynistic ways about him still and that confirms that he STILL has issues. My dad used to hit my mom and eventually stopped, but he never let go of his abusive tendencies. He continued to be verbally abusive towards her, even til this day! So you see, if you marry him, you will be sorry. Oh the horror. I can see it now.
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? No way of knowing if he would ever hit you. But by his history of anger problems you may be at risk. At first he may be cool , and later on come out of the closet with his abnormal behavior. You really need to consider your safety long term. A womanizer, hummmmmmmmm just like me. But i have never committed my self, so i can do that. But if you want to consider a relationship with him, this is something else to think about. Will he also be a cheater
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? You cant. He has a history of physical violence under pressure so there no way to tell what would happen under the same circumstances. Hopefully, youll never have to find out but always beware, and dont be afraid to have him arrested for domestic violence should something ever happen. good luck
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? OK, so you hope he will not imitate his father. But this is exactly the problem. We all learn our behavior - how to relate to the opposite sex - from our parents. And, in spite of all our good efforts, in a crisis we will most likely imitate them.So discuss this with him. Tell him about your worries. Tell him that you won't mind him screaming at you but - knowing about his parents - you will not allow any physical attack. This is a fair approach and, if you will promise him that talk, even screaming is alright, maybe you could take a chance.
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? Are you sure you don't have any other better options?
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? Now, I would say don't go through with it, but I do know a couple where the husband had a bad history of beating his girlfriends, but has not done so to his wife who he has been married to for the last seven years. He also gave up drinking, drugs and womanizing. So that's kind of one in a million. You need to bring up what you saw and tell him that it's a concern of yours and maybe for the both of you to go through some counseling before you decide to take the next step.
Will he PHYSICALLY ABUSE me if he has a history of it? Obviously you have a great concern already in this matter. Has he been in any serious relationships and if so has there been any abuse? I wouldn't make any decisions based on your memories of high school but beating somebody bloody especially a male to a female is a very serious and violent event. I would discuss this with him fully before the next level is achieved and if he's always been in the same town it would be easy enough to research the public court records to see if he's had any violent offenses involving domestic violence. Please be very careful and research this fully before you get into a committed relationship with him.
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