I dunno, that 'it was what it was' didn't sound soft and nice to me. It sounded very...male. A hook-up, and now a bit of a retreat and a little defensive. Andy to me seemed a hurt and surprised and a bit outraged angry. Gives me a really really bad feeling. They've played them so well so far, but you know sex can throw things off, especially if you have a couple of people who either don't know where the other stands, is afraid of where THEY stand, or wants to avoid anything to much right now. Very very bad feeling. I don't mind them dragging things out a bit,-well I do in a way because who doesn't want more Sam and Andy goodness-but I get the suspense and hope of it and that would be good, but you don't want to see him as a jerk either. Really hope I'm reading that clip wrong all the way around.