If you haven't had sex in like 1 or 2 years and then you do, will it make it a more special/greater experience because it has been so long as opposed to being used to having sex on a regular basis?

Also, if you are a female...and you haven't had sex in a year or 2, will it make your area tighter and therefore make the experience painful??

I'm asking these questions because a year and a half ago I ended a long-term relationship and I plan on being abstinent until I am married (which will be a while haha).