Yea, So...Me and her having been going out for two years...and she is very enthusiastic about band. I really like her, she really likes me; but here's the catch, she wants to join the nation guard for the national guard band program it has. she tells me that she will not be deployed, that's what the recruiter said. But yet she has to go to basic and the one weekend a month thing. (why would she need that if she wouldn't be deployed?).

honestly, i feel like that's a bunch of bull. if she is part of the national guard, wouldnt she be just as likely? or is there some band program that protects her?

And...IF she does go...I'm scared? i worry about my goof ball, Even the thought of her face being pushed into the mud during basic is a little unsettling. How do i deal with this?