Is sex a big part of relationships?

[aliceyumm]

I recently slept with my ex. And wow its amazing how passionate we are.We havent seen eachother in about mths and when we did we just went for it. It was great. But with my bf now he fun but I just dont get that fullfillment that I want.He is more laid back. I have to be the one who always make the move. My ex and me are the same he starts by touching me. Anyway Im thinking of leaving my bf now but should I go back with my since we both cant get enough even mths later?
my ex is 21, me 24 my bf 25

[tammee]

bad idea!!! You may have chemistry but I think you're falling in sex rather in love. Watch out!!! Sex is a small part, especially since he is your ex. He's just in it for sex. Your most immediate partner sounds like he's in it for other reasons. You might want to widen your perspective.