I'm a 14 year old boy and i'm in 9th grade
o.k. well at school i'm considered emo and have been told repeatedly that I will look good will black hair, I have dark brown hair naturally but my mom thinks that dyeing hair is for gay people which I don't have a problem with

she also hates emos/goths so this is going to be hard
can anyone give me tips on how I can get my mom to let me

or where I can get dye to have my girlfriend's older sister do it for me
http://s1032.photobucket.com/albums/a404/Kyle_Shepherd/?action=view&current=Awesomehair.jpg

this is a picture of me ^
I want the permanent kind the first time
it needs to be irreversible

I don't think my mom will let me have it at all.

she hates emo people it's too bad all my friends are too and she also hates gay people, and she hates the fact that I want to dye my hair
I need someone to tell me a way to make my mom let me or some good dye to order or something