him and their son dinner? My girlfriend split up with her boyfriend of 25 years, whom she has a 14 yr old boy with that lives with him. She goes over to his house every now and then and cooks dinner for her ex and her son. Im usually at home just messing around in the garage. I think its cheating on me, but she says there's no harm done. I was kept a secret from her ex for about 6 months. She owns a business and her ex works for her as an employee. His responsabilities include the physical labor to earn the money. Her responsabilites include paying all of their bills, buying him cigarettes, and occasionally going grocery shopping for him and her son. I dont think this is fair to me. Isnt there a line that you dont cross when you decide to leave someone.? She says she feels sorry for him and doesnt want to hurt him any worse than she has by leaving him. So she helps him with errands and what not. What about me?