Okay well i just tlked to my ex girlfriend and she wants me back. we are supposed to meet up this weekend, but i haven't seen her in almost a year. I have a feeling it will be awkward. How can i make her feel comfortable (and myself too) ??????? the other thing is that we have tlked about sex, but never actually got to any kind of sexual conduct (kissing, cuddling, sex, foreplay, ect.). just talking to her on the phone , it seems like she wants to do it this weekend, but im not sure???????? I know that if she does, she wont make the first move tho because she is kinda shy when it comes to sex. so i guess the questions are:

How do i make her and I both more comfortable around each other?
How do i know if she wants sex?
How do i suggest/show her that i want to have sex without pressuring her or just saying it?
Suggestions on the first move? (kissing, rubbing, touching, ect.) BE DETAILED!!


and plz dont tell me to let it happen naturally, or that i will just know,or anything like that
I NEED DETAILS!!! I WILL AWARD "BEST ANSWER" TO THE MOST REALISTIC AND DETAILED ANSWER!!!
THX