Well, it's not really a problem really. My boyfriend is brilliant when it comes to oral sex, even though he's had to practice a lot because I can't stand direct clitoral stimulation. The problem I have is I can't make myself orgasm, which wasn't really fair for him, seeing as he wanted to help me orgasm and I had no tips to give him. So, I was wondering if anyone had any tips on how I might try pleasing myself (I'm more than satisfied with my boyfriends work but I won't be seeing him for a while and I'd like to make myself happy, rather than rely on him (otherwise I wouldn't ask)). I've tried mimicking him and have made my legs go numb (is that normal?) but that's the extent of it.
Please Help!