My brother-in-law has just bought a home. And he and his wife are hosting all the "family get togethers" at their home. Which is fine. Exc my husband do not feel welcome in the house, and my sister-in-law always invites her family. They are rude towards out siders. And it makes everyone feel uncomfortable. My husband has started useing my side of the family as an excuse for not going to the get togethers. But at one point very soon they are going to ask questions. I don't want to be rude or cause any trouble. I know an easy solution would be to host the family get togethers at someone elses house but this isn't an option right now.