...are adults? My special guy and I are in a long distance relationship. Normally in relationships I haven't really engaged in "dirty talk," but I've been doing it with him and it's been fun and exciting. We talk about the things we want to do to each other and how we make each other feel....we talk about lots of other stuff too, but we definitely do dirty talk. Is that bad? Does that show a lack of respect? Whenever he says something that's a little dirtier than before (like in an email), he'll say something like, "I hope you don't mind me saying that" or "I hope that's not going too far...tell me if it is." Also, one time he used a word I didn't like and I told him that I didn't really like that word and suggested some alternative words, and he said sorry and said he wouldn't use the word I don't like. So, we do respect our boundaries. I was just wondering if this is bad to do or disrespectful, like if he thinks of me like a whore or something, lol.