My bf and i are both 22. been together 5 months. i've met some of his friends but not his parents. he wants me to meet them but i get nervous, just need a little time before i take that step b/c meeting the family/parents is a huge thing for me...anyways i got them a gift for the holidays, a Ghirardelli peppermint chocolate assortment box, (just as a nice gesture). im also going to be attaching a "happy holidays" card to it...but the card already has text/greeting printed inside it...so do i still need to add something to that or can i just sign it?