I have been stressing out lately about being in the Army and being married to someone else in the Army. I am in Army ROTC at my university currently and plan to be in the Nurse Corps. My fiancée is on deployment currently as an 88m but he is also a reservist. The plan is also to be married before I graduate. What I am worried about is because we will have two separate jobs, I wasn't sure what to do to make sure we can be together. I am leaning on becoming a reservist as well but may decide to go active. I wasn't sure how it works since we will probably both be reservists. Also, he was considering joining the ROTC program as well when he is home from deployment. Would this help out chances of being together when we are married? I'm not sure if he wants to the nurse corps as well or not. If I could get answers on all possibilities that would be great! Also, which possibility is the best to make sure we are together when I graduate and we are married. Thank you.