How to avoid sex talk?

[Master big]

How to avoid topic of sex, me and my girlfriend talk about it sometimes. She's 15 and im 20, i'm trying to avoid it but its hard, i feel desperate about it once we start talking about sex. I want to avoid it, whats the best things to do to avoid it ?

[Sahitya]

tell her honestly how you feel. if she actually loves you, she will understand and stop talking about sex.

[*~Leigh~*]

just be honest with her, tell her it gets you frustrated when the subject comes up and you'd really rather not talk about it right then. honesty is the best thing

[maya]

Ummmm why in tf are you dating a 15 year old, that is illegal and disgusting. Why can't you just date someone your own age? That way you can talk about sex and actually have it too. Go figure.

[kate depth]

Talk something else like sports perhaps..

[Guru]

your going to jail buddy and youll probably die in there 20 and 15?

[the ~maiden~ xanz]

Maybe first you need to actually talk about it, about why you aren't having it, why you aren't ready, why she isn't. Then explain that graphic discussions are frustrating and you want to avoid it in the future.

Is she teasing you? Trying to seduce you when you have agreed to wait? This is a game that some girls play, a way to feel powerful (and it is) and they sometimes find it funny to get you bothered when they know you have no intention of doing anything about it.

If this could be happening, you need to discuss that as well. She is awfully young (tho i have no problem with the differences in your ages as long as you wait until she is of the age of consent in your own state before anything physical happens). Some young girls discover the leverage of sex early and just find the whole thing a funny game. Do not let that get going with her.

If she really cares for and respects you, this conversation will go well and she'll knock it off. If she doesn't, she will continue to frustrate you with little innuendos and provocative behavior, at which point i would say you have a decision to make.

[MyPinkNails]

When you feel that the topic is changing down that path, change the subject to about her.. ask how's school, or how's her mum? Something random.. just change the topic asap.

[ahem]

Change the subject. Simple as that!

[Suky Lo]

Sex is something to do, not talk about. As long as you're in France, Spain or Bulgaria, she's legal. I know you've never, ever broken the law, nor ever would.