I think that she has issues with intimacy?

[vanessa]

or she's a commitment phobe or stopped liking me. when she was a kid her mom was apparently really abusive and bipolar and she stopped talking to her when she was 24. when i asked her about her mom once she never cries about anything so i knew she prob went through hell as a kid. and sometimes when i feel like if get too close to her relationship wise she backs off. like if there's a song that goes i love you she freezes like if we're dancing on a dance floor. if there's a discussion about kids in general she freezes. if there's a discussion about longterm plans and such. does it sound like she just doesn't like me or is scared of getting Really close because of her mom.

[Varin]

I have issues like this because of my mom.
Your girlfriend likes you she just has issues with getting close to people. Believe me, I know.