Grew up with a great friend, played ball together in high school. About 3 years ago in college, we got drunk, fooled around. It was just a one time thing. I really moved on, didn't think about it much, but after it happened, he was like "we cannot hang around anymore, we can't do this. I can't be gay, it's not my life plan, etc." I was just like - WHOA dude, it was a one time thing, let's just move on, forget it happened, don't let it screw up our friendship. We have not kept in touch at all, and it sucks. I really miss him as a friend, nothing more. He is married now, has a kid. I've emailed him a few times just to see how he's doing, he won't even respond. I'm still great friends with his family. How can I just help him forget all that, and we can return to being friends?