Suppose you have a very good guy friend, who is about as good as your best girl friend. You both date other people, chat and complain about your other relationships to each other, spend some good time together around school, sometimes go out mostly with other people present, but never touch or kiss or flirt or anything of that kind. Then all of a sudden one day he starta getting physical and asks you out to a romantic dinner. Would you think it is a way to take advantage of you and put a stop on it, or would you open up, stop dating other people and give it a try?
My first reaction was to stop it and push him away, just cause I knew how we both were into some other people. But after thinking a bit, I was like, hmmm, I know it is unlikely, but maybe I could still give it a chance?