So i dyed my hair like an hour and a half ago. It came out way darker than it should have.. i look goth now and not like myself.. i have school tonorrow and i know i have to go with dark hair but im just wondering if theres any way i can make it lighten up.. without using bleach. Do i wash it over and over again ? Ive washed it about 3 times since ive dyed it but i dont even see any color coming out in the shampoo.. what do i dooooo