so i met my kids dad in 06,we hav 2 kids. rite b4 my son was born i found out he was cheatin on me.(i never gave him a reason to i was always @ home waitn 4 him to come home & he wood drunk!my kids dad always disrespected me & abused me physically & emotionally). well 6mths after findin out he cheated i met a guy, i told this guy about my kids dad & how we were still 2gether livin with eachother, well we talked 4 a yr & after that yr that guy gav me a yr to make a decision. well after that yr he got locked up than 3mths later my kids dad got locked up. well this guy got out sept. & we hav been 2gether everyday. i luv my kids dad & kno it wood make my kids happy to hav parents 2gether but this guy always has respected me, never abused me in anyway. he is perfect to my kids, he makes me appy respects & luvz me & will do anything 4 me 2make sure i am safe & ok @ all times..he wood buy things me & my kid needed kuz their dad wood spend all $ on beer...i luv em both but i kan hav 1 & i think its the guy?? hes 11yrs older 5kids...what do u think??plz help.