Im 26. And my childhood sweetheart whom I've known for 14 years (we met when we were 12) have always been friends. I moved from my hometown 8 years ago, but him and I still stayed in contact and when I would visit--we always hung out. We had puppy love when young and dated briefly, but it was childs-play. We have NEVER had sex and up until recently, have both decided that we're ready to take it to the NEXT level, both sexually and romantic wise. He's planning a trip down to see me in a few months. Well---growing up---I recall witnessing two incidents in high school where he beat two girls bloody after they hit him in what started as a verbal fight. And I know he grew up watching his dad beat his mom. (his parents later divorced) Not sure if he ever had counseling, as we never discussed it. But he is HIGHLY intelligent, but I do sense womanizing/misogynist traits within him. But I love him. And I know if he proposed, I would accept. How can I be sure that he would never get angry enough to beat me?Quasimod---sometimes if not for the ignorance and callousness that leaks from people's mouth, their point could actually be well-taken. Work on your delivery, before you start name-calling in the sake of being a "help" to someone. Because it's no help to insult someone.
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