Thread: PLZ HELP: What should I do?

I found accidentally an email history on my laptop between my 19 yrs old gf and her ex she started the messages saying she misses him.. blah blahon valentine's day i took her to red lobster and she received a txt msg saying happy valentine and i miss you blah blah blah.. and she replied then deleted the sent message when i asked who is it she said he's my friend Matt, i just saw the number and he's her ex and she told me she forgot about him totally and moved on just like i did with my ex'she lives in another city 2 hours from here and she said she's thinking about going there a week ago to see her friends.. seriously what should I do?? i love her but this is not acceptable @ all im 23 btwred lobster is the BEST in this small sh!ty town.. btw i paid $70 for dinnerso plz i need advices not stupid jokes

dayum

dump her. she's gonna cheat on you and she's even telling you when.

if you took her to red lobster on v day you deserve to get cheated on

confront her..but ask nicely and use the right words

Sounds like she isn't being honest with you.You took her to Red Lobster?!??? Next time take her to a NICE restaurant (not a crummy chain place). She might appreciate you more.

she oviously wants 2 get back together with him, and she migt cheat on u if she goes. let her go, but then follow here there and then u can catch here in the act.hope this helped

call the ex boy friend or talk to her and she what she says about all that stuff you knowI would ask how she going with and just disprove the story but thats me

she is lying to you , you are spying on her , trust is gone , this relationship is crap. end it. and last time i went to red lobster it was good , and 100 dollars or so for 3 people , if the other answerers have more money than you and i , yay for them , but they shouldn't be putting us down , i work hard for my money. i bet they are kids and mom and dad give them their money to fly to paris for dinner.

tell her that the communication she keeps with her ex makes you uncomfortable, and if she lies or doesn't listen then maybe you should just spare yourself the hassle and end things with her, at least temporarily, so she can figure out her issues