if you want more detail, see my other questions. I want to know why men are so wishy washy, hot and cold? every time we are hitting it off, he then disappears. He loves to hold me, hug me, tease me, joke around, do things for me and looks at me a lot, so i know he's attracted, but then it's like out of sight out of mind when we're not together and i can't get him to respond to my emails. WHY?