Okay, well there's this guy I work with but he's usually on a different crew than me. For a couple days, though, we were on the same crew and we talked in a group of people. He seems really nice, I know he's smart (was valedictorian), and I think he's super cute. I've been awful with guys since I got out of a relationship where I was always starting conversations and constantly wondering what he was thinking about me (became pretty self conscious). I don't know how to ask him or get him to ask me to hang out. It doesn't even have to be one on one; in fact, I'd prefer it not to be. I would like to be friends with a guy for a while before we date or anything. Thoughts?