I dont argue back. I was told this actually can upset other people. True or False?

[Rhodanthe]

I would think not adding to conflict and just keeping quiet and/or responding in such a way that prevents an ongoing discussion would be a good thing. Now I'm hearing some people would actually rather I stand my ground and possibly bite off their head in the process. Tbh its just not me. I grew up in a home w/ lots of drama and conflict. I went to a school that had lots of it as well. I dont want anymore of it even if it means leaving upset ppl to argue w/ themselves and to return when they cool off.

Am I wrong? I was told it makes me seem cold, weak, and uncaring? Like I dont care enough to discuss and argue..the fuck?

[Nixonland]

It's cool not to argue, but not all arguments have to be bad. You can learn things from debate if they are things worth fighting, like political or religious ideas.