I have a few ideas in mind already... so I already know I want the dress to have long sleeves and a sweetheart neckline... but there are a few different options- the top (the part above the neckline) and the sleeves can be lace (the rest of the dress would be simple- solid white or ivory with no pattern or design)... another idea is the whole dress could be lace (with or without the top)... orrr the top and sleeves could be sheer instead of lace... I'm leaning more towards the lace though... do you think the sheer sleeves would make my arms look big? I don't like my arms and want to make them look a little slimmer... oh and the dress is probably going to be around knee length, no poof or anything, it's going to be pretty simple... thanks in advance!