How can i learn to mingle?

[Jeremy Lin]

I'm in my freshman year of college and I'm really struggling with making any kind of a relationship with anyone. I've never had a GF before, and I find it depressing that I still am unable to woo women. I've tried going to clubs and playing in intramurals but I haven't had any success. It just doesn't feel natural to me talking to people and mingling. I feel so awkward around everyone. Like I've tried to make changes like looking people in the eye and starting conversation, but it all feels so forced. How can I mingle without feeling so awkward? How can I be less socially awkard?

[vicecaptain]

too have the same problem. I have grown up alone right from childhood. So i am not able to mingle with anyone so easily.