A few friends I haven't talked to in a while want to catch up. Some of them are not in the best place right now (divorcing, suffering financially). Im not trying to gloat but I'm getting married in a couple of months, just bought a nice big house and just came back from vacation etc. when old friends who I know aren't doing so well ask me "what's new in your life" I almost don't want to mention anything, I just tell them "nothing much, same old" bc I don't want to feel like I'm rubbing things in. Would u feel bad and do the same?