Thread: "Sex Buddies" (Friends with Benifits) CONFUSION!?

** I told him, Ben yes....**
My ex-boyfriend and i broke up a week ago because we needed time off, but he said he wants to be friends with benifits. My best friend Geraldine told me that he just wants me for my parts. I him, Ben, yes and now he comes on to me stronger than when we were going out. Is he just using me? How do i tell him if i dont want to have this kind of relationship? It feels good, but i want love with him.

Please help and be descriptive!
**I meant to say "I told him, Ben, yes. . . . " **

At least he is being honest about what he does and doesn't want. That is a good thing in any type relationship. If you choose to just be f++k buddies, you better be completely over him and ok with the fact that he will be with other guys. It shouldn't be an attempt to hang on. If you're not, you'll get hurt again.