How freaky is too freaky? Like what would be weird to you in bed.... Me and my girlfriend are really close. Whenever we make out, she knows that I prefer if she's on top... She knows that I like when she takes control, even though I do it sometimes. There was one time when I put my pillow over my head and told her to kiss me blindfolded. And all of this leads her to believe that I like "aggressive" stuff. And she jokes about me being in to bondage, which im not. But I do find women taking control extremely hot. Would it be over the top to maybe ask her to spit on me? I know it sounds weird, but it's something I would try for sure. Would it creep you out?