Okay so I just recently became aware that I can connect my Samsung Intensity II to my laptop move get pictures on/off of it by using my charger as a USB. I followed a procedure that I believe I found on Ask.com about making ringtones with iTunes (select the start and stop times you want and click "Make AAVC" or whatever from the advanced tab.)
I was able to get the file onto my phone, but only as a playable music file, not as a ringtone. I tried emailing it to my phone as recommended by someone with the same problem on another site, but to no avail-the email bounced back.

So if I can't email it to my phone, how to I get a song from my computer/iTunes library onto my Samsung Intensity II?

Thank you so much guys!!!