Ex being all weird... what do I do?

**Carrot Top** · 06-09-2009, 12:05 AM

here's the story guys!

ask him out to a dance.
went.
he totally embarrassed himself and me. (...break-dancing just kill me now)
didn't take me long to see... i didn't like him.
so i broke up with him. (respectfully, as always)
now....

he follows me at school...at first i didn't really think it was that bad. then it got worse. even my friend thought it was weird...
Also saw me in a restaurant and kid you not he stared (my sister said it he looked like he was like drooling over me... *shudders*) at me the whole time.
i was SURE he was joking... that i was just imagining it. but that's when my other friends and family noticed.
Oh and just guess WHAT? his parents were staring too.

I wanted to crawl in a hole. and die.

Now heres where i need your help;

Why is he acting so strange?
what can i do to stop it?

thanks for reading fellow yahoo-ers!
oh and...
Please help me!

**cody** · 06-09-2009, 12:06 AM

you could go up to him and tell him to stop and if he doesnt then tell him ur gonna go to the cops and that might stop him but if not then go up to him and kick his little balls.

06-09-2009, 12:14 AM

tell him its creeping you out and to let you know whats on his mind and why hes been so weired.

**Lizzy** · 06-09-2009, 12:25 AM

I would tell someone. My friend had the same problem. She had to disconnect her phone, and go away for a couple months. Bottom line? Don't treat it as a little thing. Why is he doing it? Why do guys do anything?

**XxSummerlovexX** · 06-09-2009, 03:52 AM

oh boy...your ex is seemingly stalking you. congrats. and HIS PARENTS were staring too? sounds like his family is a litte bit whacked. i suggest you confront him and demand that he stop following you around and being creepy. i cannot imagine why his parents were staring at you.. .maybe he told them something about you.. i don't know but im very sorry this is happening to you..
xoxo

**Trish** · 06-09-2009, 03:56 AM

Obviously he hasn't got the message so you need to distance yourself from him and if that doesn't work talk with him and a counselor at school so he really gets it

**loli** · 06-09-2009, 03:57 AM

Two possible things.
1. He still like you and is following you around in hopes of getting back together.
2. He's mad at you for breaking up with him.
This happened to me and the only thing to do is confront the person. Tell him you know that he's been stalking you and you really need him to stop. It works trust me. Don't do it in front of people and embarrass him. He'll be embarased enough that you said it to him. Hope this helps!

**Gabby R** · 06-09-2009, 03:57 AM

confront him!!! be like .... betch! stop being so weird!! haha orrrr hook him up with another weirdo!! then they can stare at each other foreverrrrrrrrrrrr!

**Randy M** · 06-09-2009, 03:58 AM

because he is strange!!!

06-09-2009, 03:59 AM

its clear that he must be obsessed with you.
you should prob make it clear that you dont like him there'll never be another chance. maybe he'll leave you alone.