Is it wrong or weird to like a boy two years younger than me?

**Blip** · 06-21-2009, 09:54 PM

I'm a 16 year old girl, and generally i liked older boys, but for some reason there's this boy at my school and i have the hugest crush on him... but he's 14! When i think about it, i find it a little weird, but when i'm around him, it really doesn't bother me... I'm extremely shy around him and end up running away because i know he knows i like him... but i really want to do something about it... i'm going to college soon and i cant make my mind up whether to tell him i like him or just try and forget about him... because even though the age gaps a little weird now, in a couple of years it wont matter at all... what do you think?

**Abby M** · 06-21-2009, 09:57 PM

Nah. it's wrong or weird.
I've liked younger guys before. I actually dated someone three years younger, but i've dated guys three years older as well. I date whoever i want to.

06-21-2009, 09:59 PM

ok I am 17 and i am going into college and i happen to like a boy who is 15. All my friends think it is kind of weird and whenever we get an inch too close they make a huge deal about it. So even though he is super cute, he is way to immature to even be considered as a possibility.

I'm sticking to older guys and suggest you do too. Good Luck <3

06-21-2009, 10:01 PM

NO!!!!
i have
no had a crush on a sixth grader and i'm in the 8th grade! i do feel REALLY weird talking to him but i like him you know! but i know were your coming from

**Hello** · 06-21-2009, 10:01 PM

listen to mel....don't under any circumstances in your life wonder "what if?" no regrets all the way. btw when i was in 7th grade i had eight graders tell me they liked me they even openly told everyone they liked me some where about 2 years older. ima guy btw...

**Maggy** · 06-21-2009, 10:08 PM

its totally ok in a few years the age difference wont matter- like u said

**Haley L** · 06-21-2009, 10:10 PM

i know how u feel. its not weird. unless hes shorter. how the heck did he find out? u shouldnt repeat it to his face.... um just try talking to him at first.

**Progressive** · 06-21-2009, 10:13 PM

In 3 years you'll laugh about this. No 14yr old guy ive ever met has been a good bf lol ive watched and laughed back in junior high. I was the dateless wonder back them but looking back on it now thats not a big deal lol Hope it works out!

**nakisha** · 06-21-2009, 10:13 PM

no its not wierd.as long as you like him, you shouldnt care.

**rainydays08** · 06-21-2009, 10:21 PM

hmm I dont know your 16 and right now hes still under age but your right about time catching up. your going to college already and your 16? I thought thats when your around 18? Honestly I dont know I guess get to know him as a friend and all maybe when some years pass you can go out with him if you still like him.