Is it weird for a 17yr old guy to be going out with a 14 yr old girl?

**catherine i** · 06-23-2009, 11:46 PM

Hi from France â™«

Not at all !

Have a nice day,

Cat.

**Egaughn** · 06-23-2009, 11:46 PM

When I was seventeen I drew the line at two years, I wouldn't want the gap to be much bigger than that. 17 and 14 could mean two years and one month difference, or it could mean three years and eleven months difference...I think...I tend to screw those calculations up. My point is though, there is some leeway there. And yeah the other guy was right, as people get older the gap doesn't matter as much because it's a ratio sort of thing. It wouldn't be weird at all for a 20 year old woman to go out with a 23 year old man.

I'd like to say "as long as the two people are comfortable with it it's okay, and it shouldn't matter what other people think" but in reality, it does matter.

06-23-2009, 11:46 PM

Its not really that bad. Tbh.

**alyssaaaa** · 06-23-2009, 11:47 PM

i dont think its that bad

**Orla C** · 06-23-2009, 11:49 PM

No, but you can't have sex with her, because you would be committing statutory rape.

**Isabella** · 06-23-2009, 11:49 PM

If he actually likes her and isn't just a perv. Then no, its okayy.

**Loves It** · 06-23-2009, 11:49 PM

Not really, if they're happy then why not. They're both old enough to know what they're doing.

**aurora** · 06-23-2009, 11:51 PM

kind of, but a 17yr old guy, wants to do "things" that the 14yr old girl shouldn't be thinking about until shes 16!!!!!
get meh drift?

06-23-2009, 11:51 PM

Eh. Somewhat. It all depends.

06-23-2009, 11:52 PM

I think it's fine. You're only three years older. Girls are usually three years ahead in maturity then guys... I think it's fine, well it also depends what both parents think...