Is it weird for a 17yr old guy to be going out with a 14 yr old girl?

**David** · 06-23-2009, 11:35 PM

im not the 17yr old guy its my brother!!

**tiger dolphin** · 06-23-2009, 11:36 PM

yes definitely!
everyone will be saying what a creep or that is soooooo disgusting
behind the guys back

06-23-2009, 11:40 PM

At the moment its only 3 years but a big 3 years as he is over the age to be legal however she is underage which could cause him to get in to trouble even if they have a proper loving relationship. It would be better to wait a few years until she was older.

**Maddie** · 06-23-2009, 11:41 PM

At this age, its weird, do you not get bullied about it by your friends?

**hockey kid 81** · 06-23-2009, 11:41 PM

depends on how far the relationship goes.. if its just a hold hands and kiss, then i don't see any problem, if it makes its way to a bed room, then that could be a problem

**toots** · 06-23-2009, 11:42 PM

YES! My ex is 17 and he is going out with a 14 year old.

I feel pathetic for ever liking him, even before it happened. From 16 your pretty much in adult, 14 is still a kid.

**sparky** · 06-23-2009, 11:42 PM

The 17 year old will want more than just holding hands, the 14 year old girl, just sees him as a boyfriend she can boast about. As long as he keeps the snake in his trousers, it might work, but I think they would see the relationship in different ways.

**Elizabeth Rose** · 06-23-2009, 11:43 PM

Mmmm. A little. You are at different stages of life.

**Sean** · 06-23-2009, 11:43 PM

If they are doing sexual things....YES! tell your bro its wrong.

06-23-2009, 11:44 PM

it's not weird. it's pretty much normal.

what's weird is if two couples are dating when they are 5 or more years apart.

but to some people, they don't care about the age. they just care about how much they love each other.