My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. He has gone

[Brandy]

Just tell him. Tell him that while you understand his problems and want to help that you can't afford to carry the load for everything. You know, an alternative is not stay in more. Do things that require no or little money. But it's simply not cool for him to have these ideas and expect you to finance them.

[Chip]

tell him your concerns and if does not take you seriously maybe you could introduce him to the front door sp it doesnt hit him on the way out