from afar and never ask me out? I am a tall, model type, friendly, intelligent, sweet, ambitious dancer black woman living in a majority white culture. I do not have a preference as far as race. I am very frustrated because I have female friends who are shocked when I tell them that no one asks me out. I am out there in the community because I teacher performing arts classes and I am social. I notice white men looking at me from a far but no one dares asks me out. There was one white guy who commented on how he thinks I am attractive, but even he does not take the risk and ask me out. Not that I solely want to date a white man, but in the place that I live, I don't have a lot of options. What is the deal?