...What should I do with this ladies? So we have an argument that ended with her apologizing to me. I didn't accept it for a couple of days so she gets mad. She says not to talk to her until she contacts me again.

Well a week after she contacts me, and says thank you and have a great week?! wtf.

So this evening she says she is engaged to another man. I am even more confused than ever. This girl is 19 and not ready for marriage. Do I try to talk some sense into her or just let her go and make the biggest mistake of her life. She is making a rash decision after we had a fight, and how do you go from loving one guy to getting married to another in one week?

The guy who proposed is also 19 and is infatuated with her. I am passed college, and know that these things never work out, since we all change during those college years. Getting married as a soph is a horrible idea