'Putting out' on the first date: what men really think? Ever wondered if

[shani-dani]

sex on the first date is too much to? Ever wondered if sex on the first date is too much too soon?

[James]

I think if you put it out there, the guy would probably be willing to have sex of course, but you'd be losing a lot of respect from them, and if you were to have done it, and told your next boyfriend that you had done that, he may lose respect for you too. I'm a guy, I say if your looking for anything real, serious, or anything like that, even in the future but not now, don't do it.

[Boredom Swells]

For me: yes. For the average male: probably not. Most guys I know probably date for the sex. I think the first date is a bit much, but makes for a great question. It's the extremity of which someone is willing to go for sex, which is sometimes not held back by most men.

[Allen]

It does set a precedent i think which can be fun at first, but would start to cast a lot of doubt over that person (i.e. being promiscuous), even though it does take 2 to tango.