a few months ago i found out my wife was cheating on me we had a big argument about it and at the end she said she WAS it was a one time thing she loved me and wouldn't do it again so i decided to stay with her but now when we have sex it feels more like a chore than a time of pleasure im not the type of guy to get in bed with anything walking it has to be love behind it is the fact that i don't enjoy sex with her anymore mean i don't love her true i don't love her as much as i did but is it completely gone now?