So, I'm a femme female. Too shy to make the first move. I always hang out at gay bars and women never approach me, I think they think that I am straight and just hanging out at the gay club. This is me http://tinypic. com/r/148n4zm/5 (remove the space to make link work) I love being girly, but would it be best if I changed my look in order for girls to know i'm gay? I'm reposting this because my last one got deleted. Thanks in advance!