day making love? I'm dumbfounded that she wanted to spend 3 whole days driving around in traffic, spending money and battling crowds, to acquire crap she has to wrap, and give to relatives that she doesn't really like.

She could have spent the last couple of days drinking tea and going to the gym, and then all day tomorrow in a hot sex marathon with me.

I don't know, if it was me, I'd rather feel good, be less stressed, have more money, and be less engaged with the inlaws. Then follow it up with a sauna, a vodka, and a screw. Who would want to drive around in traffic for several days and go to stores and shop for people you don't like?