Ok so here it goes, I hit someones 2002 crappy looking car because I accidentally backed into it, so left a note with my phone number, there were only a few scratches but i would have felt back if i just left. 4 days pass and they finally call me back but i am asleep so they leave a message wondering about how I want to handle it. 2 hours after that phone call I call the people i hit back to tell them that i want to know the cost of the damage, they fail to answer so I leave this as a message. NO CALL back for 14 days!!! finally tonight they call me back and leave a message saying they got an estimate... isn't there some kind of grace period in which you can call someone back! what should i do,,,, i don't know the estimate yet and i dont want to involve insurance if at all possible..... unfortunately i did not take any pics, I am kicking myself for that.