picking fights with him? OK I had two fiddler crabs (one male and the other female), and I went to the store to get a third. I wanted a female so i got one. The lady however assumed the one with no claw was a female, but it turns out he's a male but his big arm broke off. Now my original male keeps picking fights with him but he just runs away. What can I do? BTW I can't return him unless he's in a body bag and I only have 24 hrs to do so.