My videos load 3 seconds, stop for 6 seconds, load 3 more, and so on like that.
Pages take a bit of time to load, but I know friends whose pages load even slower, but their videos load 10x as fast as mine.
I have 1.37 gb of ram, that isn't the problem. I have highspeed DSL internet, that was once lightning fast but started to get slower over time until now where its the slowest its ever been.

All video sites load videos slowly for me (not just youtube). Images load fairly slow too but not equivalent to how slow the videos load.

I have defragged, cleared all temp files and such, emptied recycle bin, that isn't effecting it at all. Its not spyware.

Is it my internet connection, graphics card, or something else making all this load slowly?