My ex girlfriend is keeping me close and using me as a safety net until she finds a definite place to go. She broke up with me a month ago after 3.5 years and has been hanging out with somebody that she met right before she did it. Now I know she is spending the night at his house and has been doing so for a few weeks now. But she always texts me and calls me and wants to do things with me. I am her safety net and don't want to be. How is she going to handle it when I cut off contact? I have tried twice before, but my phones ring like crazy until I pick up. I'm not picking them up anymore. She broke up with me, why would she do this? And what will happen after I completely cut off contact?