It normally starts in the morning or late at night when we are both tired. It will be something small but will escalate because he becomes very patronising and defensive towards me and I don't like to be told I am wrong. If he or I is upset about something I like to just work it out but he will analyse every single word I say and explain how wrong I am and talk to me like an idiot. I hate this attitude about him though I love him and want to move forward but he says to me "I don't know how else to be but defensive I have always been like this. I am bad at arguing always have been" what can I do? I hate arguing myself but he is making me feel totally miserable and honestly I am beginning to regret moving in with him. Maybe it is something that can be sorted? any ideas :S