My fiance and I have a eleven month old baby, and when he was born i was in the middle of my college education, so i put it on hold to be with him, now that he is getting older my fiance, who already has a degree, has just been promoted in his job and we will be in a better place financially where i will not have to work part time, I would love to go back to school in the fall, instead of back to work, but my fiance found out they they want to expand the company he works for and are wanting to move him across state. It would be a big careeropportunityy for him, and i want him to be successful, but at the same time i can not start college and have to leave in the middle of a semester.
Is it selfish of me to want to go back to school even if it mean my fiance my not be able to be promoted as quickly?? My feelings are that it is unfair for me to have to sit around and wait because he may or may not be getting moved in a year...
It is has been causing me a lot of inner turmoil, and I have tried to talk about this with him, but he says that I know school is really important to you and I would never tell you not to go back, but I just don't know what is best right now..... I guess i feel like that is not a good enough answer.... like he is just ignoring the issue of not even talking to me before he agreed to be moved out of the area
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