Shouldn't you hold all the cards here im not trying to be mean im just saying in a divorce the woman gets the most advantage to include child support, as far as him spending your money that's a done story you just have to move on.
Shouldn't you hold all the cards here im not trying to be mean im just saying in a divorce the woman gets the most advantage to include child support, as far as him spending your money that's a done story you just have to move on.
You need to lawyer up and fast! When filing for divorce with children, both parents need to fill out a parenting plan. It states who has the kids when, and where. The divorce paperwork should have said joint or sole custody. If he has SOLE custody, you are screwed until you can get it reversed.
Shouldn't you hold all the cards here im not trying to be mean im just saying in a divorce the woman gets the most advantage to include child support, as far as him spending your money that's a done story you just have to move on.
You need to lawyer up and fast! When filing for divorce with children, both parents need to fill out a parenting plan. It states who has the kids when, and where. The divorce paperwork should have said joint or sole custody. If he has SOLE custody, you are screwed until you can get it reversed.
i would suggest that you hire a lawyer, but for what?
Exactly where were you when all of this happened? It seems like you weren't even there for the divorce at all. Didn't you have representation when the divorce took place? I thought Congress passed a bill that parents that are deployed couldn't have their children change custody while they were away doing the nation's business. Sounds like you got screwed.
You still have a right to know where your children go to school, and their daycare and the such. You can file a contempt of court on him for that.
You really do need a lawyer. You need him to go over your papers and explain to you what they really mean. You will then have to go to court to either reverse some of what is in there and make him accoutable for what your children are doing. You may be able to get joint custody or shared parenting. I do beileve most court would agree to that even though you will be deploying.
I'm not sure what the laws in Arkansas are but most state laws are about the same. Your lawyer can tell you what you can do. I still don't understand the circumstances surrounding the divorce. A lawyer is your best bet. Who knows, he may have done something wrong and you may have been protected and didn't know it.
Exactly where were you when all of this happened? It seems like you weren't even there for the divorce at all. Didn't you have representation when the divorce took place? I thought Congress passed a bill that parents that are deployed couldn't have their children change custody while they were away doing the nation's business. Sounds like you got screwed.
You still have a right to know where your children go to school, and their daycare and the such. You can file a contempt of court on him for that.
You really do need a lawyer. You need him to go over your papers and explain to you what they really mean. You will then have to go to court to either reverse some of what is in there and make him accoutable for what your children are doing. You may be able to get joint custody or shared parenting. I do beileve most court would agree to that even though you will be deploying.
I'm not sure what the laws in Arkansas are but most state laws are about the same. Your lawyer can tell you what you can do. I still don't understand the circumstances surrounding the divorce. A lawyer is your best bet. Who knows, he may have done something wrong and you may have been protected and didn't know it.
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