There's this family member who deactivated their account which we all knew about, but the other day i was on facebook when i saw their name on another family members page, so i asked him if he had deleted me as it was showing we weren't 'friends' anymore, he said that he reactivated his account and it takes a while for all the info and friends etc to reload, so i just left it at that. Then this morning i find that he has sent me a friend request so i accepted the request and now i can see from his profile page that he's been back on for at least a month. Could it have been an issue with fb or did he delete me and just not have the guts to tell me?